Song of the Day: September 24, 2018 - "I Can't Be You" by Chersea
With her new album out at the end of the week, Chersea is giving one last sneak peek with the song “I Can’t Be You”.
Said to be her most heartfelt track on the album In Limbo, her fragile voice carries the song to an intensely emotional ending, as it “explores gas-lighting – the manipulation of someone through psychological means into questioning their own sanity. The affected person views their emotional situation through a distorted lens, and becomes willing to sacrifice their own happiness and health to conform to the flawed perspective,” Chersea says. “The effect of that sacrifice allows the cycle to continue and in the process, one loses their individuality, as well as their grip of reality. “I Can’t Be You” follows that journey of the victim trying to reconcile his or her own thoughts about the situation. As they begin to discern that it’s not their fault, they realize that their desperation is only a by-product of codependsey. They have been under the illusion that their identity requires outside validation. Acknowledging that they will no longer be the product of their partner’s gas-lighting, helplessness transforms into a proclamation of inner validation: “I can’t be me” becomes “I Can’t Be You.””
